PAY RISE CONVERSATION GUIDE

What to say when asking for a pay rise

Keep it simple: explain how your role has changed, show the evidence that matters and make a clear salary request. You do not need a perfect speech — but you should know your case and what you want to happen next.

OpenSet the purposeMake the topic clear without over-explaining.
EvidenceShow what changedScope, outcomes, capability and market.
AskName the salaryExplain where the number comes from.
Leave withA next stepCriteria, decision owner and review timing.
Written and checked by DanUpdated 30 August 2026UK employees · evidence-led guidance
QUICK ANSWER

You do not need a perfect speech

A good pay-rise conversation is simple: explain what has changed, show the evidence that matters, make a clear request and leave with a next step.

I’d like to review whether my salary still reflects the responsibilities I’m carrying. I’ve pulled together what has changed, the evidence I’ve looked at and the salary level I’d like us to discuss.

Acas says an employee can discuss a pay rise with their employer and give the reasons they think they should receive one where they do not already have a right through a contract or collective agreement. Acas: Asking for and awarding pay rises.

THE STRUCTURE

A simple pay-rise conversation structure

OPEN
EVIDENCE
ASK
AGREE NEXT STEP

You are trying to make the decision easier to understand, not overwhelm your manager. Keep the conversation anchored to the role, the evidence and the outcome you want.

BEFORE THE MEETING

What to say when asking for the meeting

The initial message does not need your whole salary argument. Its job is simply to create proper time for the conversation.

Direct and neutral

“Could we book some time to discuss my role, responsibilities and salary progression?”

After responsibilities have grown

“My role has changed quite a bit over the past year. Could we set aside time to review the scope and whether my salary still reflects it?”

Avoid making the meeting invite sound like a threat or a surprise demand. Give the other person enough context to prepare.

OPENING

What to say at the start of the pay-rise meeting

Start with the purpose of the conversation, then move quickly to evidence.

I’d like to review whether my salary reflects the scope of the role I’m doing now. Since my last review I’ve taken on X and Y, and I’d like to talk through the evidence and what progression could look like.

Then stop. Let your manager engage with the point. You do not need to fill every silence with more justification.

YOUR CASE

How to explain why you are asking for more

Use evidence that shows the job has value, the scope has changed or your current salary is weak for the level of work.

Scope

What you now own

Team size, budget, clients, projects, systems, decisions or responsibilities that have grown.

Outcomes

What improved

Concrete results, risk reduced, quality improved, revenue protected or delivery made more reliable.

Capability

How the role changed

Skills, qualifications, technical authority or judgement that now sit at a higher level.

Market

What the job pays

Internal range and credible external evidence for genuinely similar work.

CIPD’s pay-progression guidance notes that performance, competency and skills are common progression factors and that employers can combine individual achievement with wider labour-market evidence. CIPD: Reward factsheet.

A useful way to present the evidence

Over the past year I’ve taken responsibility for X and Y, and delivered Z. I’ve also looked at relevant pay evidence for this kind of work. Based on that, I’d like to discuss moving my salary towards £X.
THE NUMBER

How to name the salary you want without sounding arbitrary

Do not make the number feel as though it appeared from nowhere. Explain the salary level first, then the percentage if it is useful.

Example

Current salary£45,000
Target discussed£50,000
Gross difference£5,000
Equivalent11.1%

“I’d like to discuss £50,000 because that is the salary level I can support” is stronger than “I want about 11%.”

The script gets easier when the number and evidence are clear. PayPrecise can show where your salary sits for your occupation, identify a Next Pay Marker where supported and help you carry that evidence into the conversation. See how the Pay Rise Blueprint helps.

Not sure what figure to use? Read How much of a pay rise should I ask for? or use the Pay Rise Calculator once you know the proposed salary.

PUSHBACK

What should I say if my pay-rise request gets pushback?

Pushback is not one thing. Listen for whether the objection is about your case, the salary range, timing, budget or the decision process.

If they say…The real issue may be…Your next question
“There isn’t budget.”Timing or affordabilityWhen is the next decision point, and what would need to be true?
“You need more experience.”Missing criteriaWhich specific outcomes or responsibilities would demonstrate the next level?
“Everyone gets the same rise.”General award vs individual progressionCan we separate the company-wide award from where I sit in the role?
“You’re at the top of the range.”Role level or gradeWhat does the next level look like, and what is the route to it?
“There isn’t budget.”

Do not argue with the budget from the outside.

“I understand. When could this realistically be reviewed again, and can we agree what would need to be true for the salary to move?”
“Everyone is paid about the same.”

Move from hearsay to structure.

“What is the salary range for this role, where do I sit in it, and what would move me higher?”
“You need more experience.”

Turn a vague objection into observable criteria.

“Which responsibilities or outcomes would demonstrate that I’m operating at the next pay level?”
“You’re at the top of the range.”

The next step may be level progression rather than a bigger rise in the same band.

“What does the next level or title look like, and what timeline would be realistic?”
“We’ll look at it next year.”

A vague future promise is hard to act on.

“Can we agree a review month and the criteria you would want to see before then?”
“I need to speak to HR.”

That can be a normal part of the process.

“Of course. What information would be useful from me, and when should we pick this back up?”
WHERE GENERIC SCRIPTS STOP

The words are easy to copy. The case behind them is the hard part.

A script can help you start the meeting. It cannot decide what salary you should name, which pay evidence fits your occupation, what achievements matter most for your type of job, or how to respond when your manager challenges the number.

Problem 1“What number should I actually say?”

The strongest wording still feels weak if the salary target is arbitrary or disconnected from the job market.

Problem 2“Which evidence matters for my job?”

A software role, care role, engineer and communications director should not build the same salary case around the same proof points.

Problem 3“What do I say when they push back?”

Budget, internal range, missing evidence and next-level progression are different objections and need different follow-up questions.

The Pay Rise Blueprint is designed to put the number and the conversation together.

It combines your occupation pay position and Next Pay Marker where supported with job-relevant evidence themes, what to bring, what to say, likely pushback questions and the next step to leave the meeting with.

BUILD THE CASE BEHIND THE WORDSA generic script helps you speak. Your Blueprint helps you build the case.

Put a defensible salary number, job-specific evidence and a practical pushback plan behind the conversation.

Name the numberUse your pay position and Next Pay Marker where supported.
Bring the proofFocus on evidence themes that fit your occupation.
Shape the wordingTurn the number and evidence into a clear conversation.
Handle pushbackPrepare for range, budget, progression and “not yet”.
YOUR BLUEPRINTNumber Evidence Wording Pushback plan
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BEFORE YOU LEAVE

Do not leave the meeting without a next step

The conversation does not have to end with an immediate yes to be useful. It does need to end with something more concrete than “we’ll see”.

  • Ask where you sit in the internal range, if a range exists and can be shared.
  • Ask what evidence is missing if the case is not strong enough yet.
  • Clarify whether this is pay, progression or responsibilities — these can need different decisions.
  • Agree timing for the next decision or review.
  • Confirm the next step in writing after the meeting if it is useful to have a shared record.
Can we agree the criteria for the decision and when we’ll review it again?
AFTER THE MEETING

Send a short follow-up so the next step does not disappear

If the answer is not immediate, a brief written recap gives both sides the same record of the number, criteria and timing you discussed.

FOLLOW-UP EMAIL EXAMPLE

Subject: Salary review follow-up

Thanks for discussing my role and salary today. As agreed, I’m asking us to review moving my salary towards £X based on the scope we discussed.

My understanding is that the next step is [decision / evidence / approval], and that we’ll review this again by [date]. I’ll focus on [agreed criteria] before then.

Please let me know if I’ve missed anything from what we agreed.

Keep the note factual. The aim is not to restart the negotiation by email; it is to preserve the decision path you agreed in the room.

WHAT NOT TO DO

Common mistakes that weaken a pay-rise conversation

Building the whole case around inflation

Cost pressures are real, but your manager may have limited control over them. Connect the request to the job, progression and market evidence too.

Using an arbitrary percentage

If you cannot explain the salary behind the percentage, the number can feel easy to challenge.

Making it entirely about being busy

Workload matters, but show responsibility, outcomes, judgement or scope rather than relying only on effort.

Bluffing about leaving

Do not threaten an external move unless it is a real decision you are prepared to make.

QUESTIONS ANSWERED

Pay-rise conversation questions

What should I say when asking for a pay rise?

Start calmly and make the topic clear: explain that you want to review whether your salary reflects your current responsibilities, then show the evidence and make a specific request. Finish by agreeing the next step rather than trying to win the whole discussion in one speech.

How do I ask for a pay-rise meeting?

Keep the meeting request short. For example: “Could we book some time to discuss my role, responsibilities and salary progression?” Save the detailed case for the meeting itself.

How do I justify a pay rise?

Use evidence that is relevant to the job: increased scope, outcomes, responsibilities, skills or technical authority, internal salary structure where known, and credible external market evidence. Focus on what changed and why it matters.

Should I mention inflation when asking for a pay rise?

You can mention cost pressures or general pay conditions as context, but do not make inflation your whole case. Employer reward decisions can also reflect affordability, market rates, performance, skills and progression.

What do I say if my manager says there is no budget?

Acknowledge the constraint and move to the next useful question: ask when the salary can be reviewed again, what criteria would support movement and whether another form of progression can be agreed in the meantime.

What do I say if I am already at the top of the salary range?

Ask what the next level or title looks like, what evidence would demonstrate that level and what timeline would be realistic. If the band is genuinely capped, the conversation may be about progression rather than a bigger increase inside the same role.

What if my manager says they need to speak to HR?

That is not necessarily a rejection. Ask what information they need from you, who will make the decision and when you should expect to revisit the conversation. Leave with a date or a clear next step where possible.

Should I threaten to leave if I do not get a pay rise?

Do not bluff. If you are genuinely considering external roles, you can discuss progression and market alternatives honestly, but an ultimatum you are not prepared to act on can damage the conversation.

SOURCES & METHOD

Where the evidence in this guide comes from

This page uses Acas for the process and employee-rights context around asking for a pay rise, and CIPD for the factors employers can use when structuring reward and pay progression. ONS is linked as the primary source when you need external occupation-pay evidence.

The scripts on this page are examples, not a claim that one wording will work with every employer. Your employer’s budget, internal range, review process and decision-makers can change the outcome.

Last reviewed 30 August 2026. ONS 2025 earnings estimates are provisional. Salary evidence is context, not a promise that an employer will award a particular salary.

NEXT STEP

Where are you in your pay-rise decision?

Am I underpaid?I don’t know if my pay is competitiveHow much should I ask for?I don’t know what salary to ask for